1.  What is one insight you gained from hearing Pastor Daniel at the marriage event?

2.  Take a moment to encourage your spouse by telling them one way you see them growing in their walk with Christ. How do you see your spouse abiding in Christ?

3.  Share with your spouse one step you feel God is calling you to take to allow you to grow closer to Him.

4.  Devise a plan for how you will use the "Be Transformed" commentary to study the book of John together.

• Discuss when you will each read and study the Bible as an individual.
• Develop a suggested pace for reading John 13-21 and the "Be Transformed" comentary.
• Plan a weekly time to meet together to discuss what God is teaching you through His Word and to pray together.
• Put the date on your calendar. Commit to it and guard it from other conflicts that may arise.

5.  End your date by praying together. Ask God to draw you each individually to Himself through reading scripture and prayer. Ask God to draw you closer together as a couple as you share with one another how His Word is shaping you.